If I ask most
Americans how they define a successful person, many of them will have similar answers.
Most people think that a successful person is a person that goes to college,
graduates, attains a corporate job/start their own business, have a family, and
eventually retire. That is society’s definition of success and we were taught
this at a young age.
Think back to when
you were in elementary school before you knew about society’s definition of a
successful person. Remember when your teacher asked you what did you want to be
when you grow up; how many of you became what you wanted to be when you were
younger, and how many of you chose certain careers simply because of how much
money you would earn? It is rare to hear people talk about a successful person
without mentioning how much money they earn. Nowadays, everything involving
success is about making a lot of money and living comfortably, but in the midst
of becoming “successful” these successful people have forgotten about the
importance of being happy and an overall joyous human being.
I know plenty of “successful
people” and they may have a lot of money and materialistic things, but so many
of them are miserable, angry, or sad all of the time. They sacrifice so much of
their time for money, they purchase all of these expensive things, and they
hope to eventually find permanent inner peace and lasting happiness, and they
never do. Talk to an elderly person, ask them if they could rewind the hands of
time would they live their life differently, and I promise that they would give
you a long list of things that they would change.
You don’t have to be
one of those people that reflect on the past and wish that they would have
spent their life doing what they love to do, instead of doing what made them a
lot of money. You could live a simple life, dedicating the majority of your
time to doing what you love to do; you can earn income from doing it, granted,
it might not be a lot depending on what you choose to do, but if happiness is
more important than money this should not bother you.
If you love to paint
become a painter, if you love to make music become a musician, if you love to
write find the time to write a book. The best way to decide what type of career
will bring you happiness is to take a look at your hobbies. Think about what
you do in your spare time that makes you happy and temporarily take your mind
off of all of your problems; is this something that you can turn into a career?
If so, then the next step is to decide how you will transition from a career
that doesn’t involve you doing what you love to do to one that does.
Make a plan with
minor goals for you to accomplish that will lead you to your overall goal.
Research the hobby that you want to turn into a career, and see how other
people accomplished this, and find articles that will aid you in devising this
plan. There is a vast amount of information on the internet, so this should not
be a difficult task.
Cut back on your
spending; think about the things that you buy and really don’t need and invest
that money into purchasing what you need to start your new career. Try to
accomplish something daily that will contribute to you completely making this transition.
Don’t let naysayers hinder
your progress and talk you out of what you are trying to do. This will try to
do this, because everyone won’t understand your vision and your goals, but you
can’t let them stop you. When you start to have doubts, think about what you
are doing, why you are doing it, rework your plan off and on, and never give
up.